We would be completely lost without it to be sure. But I am also very aware of their increasing independence and therefore the times when I am not around. And that they have access to all that television or the Internet has to offer.
As a family we are trying not impose without reason and discussion. Hoping to reach compromises and trust and when breaches occur and lines are crossed to not punish or scold but to talk, explain and talk some more! Being mindful of our own behaviour when thinking of the restrictions we might be about to suggest!!
This has led to interesting discussions about pornography, advertising, time management and sharing. And it continues to be a worry, an awareness maybe and definitely an ongoing point for discussion. Current debate is on the merit of the coolmath website and should they watch the Disney channel?
But then I walk in the kitchen to see this. David teaching Mia to play risk and then draughts. And I think we're doing okay.
I am STILL erring on the side of an out-right TV ban, and I think we'll get there some day. And this is why.
ReplyDeleteWe have identified quite successfully those elements of our life which add value, and those which detract. We have filtered out (apart from indulgent Saturday morning breakfasts) the self-interested newspapers, and I think the same will come with 'general' TV. The television in its sat-in-the-corner-offering-non-input-entertainment is adding little value to our lives. We already shun Britains Got X Talent Factor shows, and often settle on comedy/learning: I'm a big fan of Wheeler Dealers, and why not. I think it is only time for the majority of the family to realise and appreciate that doing things together, not just being entertained together is where it's at. And the picture above proves that. You show me a photo of the 2 of them watching Disney Channel and you'll need a wide lense; actually DOING together, bonding and learning from eachother is where they are benefitting.
Rant over.
Love you all.
P.S. Did he do my expenses first?
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Thanks for your thoughts Mr P! He hasn't finished the expenses sorry. And he couldn't work out the streaming thing either and I don't think car things are ever stream able so you'd miss out there!
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